As you already know, a PUA can be decent looking, congruent (comfortable), and still have to approach over 100 women before getting a lay out of it (at least from night game). You are probably one of these PUAs. Approaching 100 women before getting a lay may sound odd, but it's about right for most PUAs. Just do the math. If you've approached 10 girls per weekend for about two months before getting a single lay by a new girl, you have pretty much approached more than 100 women.

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So why do so many women flake on PUAs? There are two core reasons. The main reason why PUAs get rejected and flaked on so much, is simply because they get caught up in trying to outmaneuver women. Unless you're studying women all day, every day, you're simply not going to be able to outmaneuver a girl. Before your interaction is over, there's a very good chance that she's going to outmaneuver you. For example, you're going to try to get her to do a hand spin, and she is going to tell you "no" or absolutely refuse to do it (which basically will make you look like a try-hard as well). You're going to say something odd, and she's going to give you a weird look. You're going to run a routine, and she is going to challenge you on using it or it just being an odd thing to do when you're talking to someone.

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In almost every case, you're going to get caught up in trying to correct your mistake, micro-calibrating, as some like to call it. You might be able to get a away with it a little, but sooner or later, you're either going to over-micro-calibrate and cause her to think you're weird, or you're going to piss her off with a neg, and she's going to walk off. Getting caught up in micro-calibration basically means that you've screwed up, and are trying to escape the gravity of a black hole. Try all that you want to escape, but you're eventually going to get sucked in and lose. What's the solution to this? Don't get caught up in micro-calibration. Stay true to yourself. Why? Because you won't have to worry about pissing her off with a neg because you over-micro-calibrated. And you don't get caught up in trying to outmaneuver her and her rebuttals. You can't lose the maneuvering game if you never engage in it. Understand that hoops, games, and routines, have a very little pay out for the high risk you take on by using them. This goes for all "must say/do "x", and must get "y" result from girl" type game.

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You should never engage in anything that you might have to explain. Guy that has to explain why he is asking if a girl knows why other girls dye their hair blonde, stands a high chance of getting blown out. Why? Because he is going to start maneuvering or micro-calibrating with his response if he ever has to explain himself or doesn't get the positive reaction he was expecting. But if a guy has a normal conversation and a girl asks why he is talking about brands of alcohol, all he has to say is that he just wanted to talk about it. In other words, he doesn't have to get caught up in a game that he can't win if he gets called out (on talking about a casual subject) or gets a negative response from a girl. On top of that, his conversation isn't reliant on getting any particular response, as he is just going with the flow.

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And the other reason why PUAs get flaked on is because they never show any real signs of confidence. If you will, think about how much guys care about a woman's beauty. If you had a choice, you would only choose to date women whose beauty is very superior, moreso than the other cute girls that are competing for your time and attention. Now think about what women value in men as much as we value beauty in them. Confidence. For her, especially a woman with options, she is only going to spend her time with men that show a very high level of confidence, moreso than almost every other guy that has ever asked her out on a date or approached her. The guy running routines, or even just casual conversation, never shows anymore confidence than the guys that she already has available to her. If she just wants one guy, she isn't going to spend her time with guys that have very normal levels confidence that she sees often, just like you wouldn't spend your time on cute girls if they were a dime a dozen for you. You'd want that super model. Nothing is wrong with the cute girl, but at the same time, you know that you can get a model, so just being cute isn't good enough for you. This is just like how nothing might not be wrong with your confidence, but your level of confidence just isn't good enough for her.

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At some point in the interaction, when dealing with a woman that has options, you have to show that you have more confidence than the guys she already has available to her. You can do it by being straight up with your interest in her, making a bold move, or by showing that you don't care when she points out one of your flaws (I recommend making several shows of this type of confidence; not just doing it once in the interaction.). For example, a girl made a comment about one of my belt buckles. What did I say to her? I said "I didn't wear this belt buckle to please you.". I then told another girl that she was going to give me her number and that we were going to go out. She asked me how was I so sure that she wants to give me her number and go out with me. I flat out told her "Because you're attracted to me. I see the way that you look at me, and the eyes don't lie. Even if you happen to have a boyfriend, you'll still go out with me anyway." (and then I kicked back in my chair and relaxed with my hands behind my head). In both of these examples, these girls were just in awe of my confidence and were all over me.

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After reading this post, you can begin to understand why I oftentimes will get the very first girl I approach in any given night, and I rarely, if ever, get flaked on. I stay true to myself by not engaging in little pick-up games and moves that will very likely move to a micro-calibration game that I will eventually lose. And I make shows of excessive confidence, remembering that confidence in a man is very similar to beauty in women. The information within this post is how you will stop women from flaking on you, and start getting them to want to see you again.

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